What and who are swingers? Swingers can be defined as a person or persons who engage in promiscuous sex. It also is defined as a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners. But what it boils down to is, just “RECREATIONAL SEX” that is to say sex without emotion and just for the fun of it or to put it even more simply lust not love.
Why do people enter the lifestyle? For some swingers, the excitement of living some what a clandestine life were their family members and “vanilla friends” (a term used to describe people not in the lifestyle) have no idea what they are doing. Than again there are swingers that choose not to hide there involvement in the lifestyle, but this is a personal choice, you should be very careful, as knowledge of your involvement in the lifestyle may result in loss of “vanilla friends” and conflicts with family members. We think it is better to keep your swinging lifestyle to your self to keep the circle of friends you now have and the harmony with family members, while building relationships with others in the lifestyle.
Contrary to popular belief, Swingers are not involved in a sexually boring relationship that is not working out, nor are they looking to replace their partner, in fact for swingers it is just the opposite, you will find swingers particularly married couples, are very committed and secure in their relationship. If you are exploring the lifestyle, you should make sure both partners have no doubt, your a relationship is just that Committed and Secure and one that is has a strong foundation in trust and understanding, with out this you may be headed for disaster. Keep in mind this lifestyle is not for everybody, if you are trying to put the life back into a failing relationship swing won’t do it for you.
Okay, we have a strong foundation of trust and understanding, a very secure and committed relationship, so were do we start? We recommend that couples take some time do some research together, talk to people that have been in the lifestyle for a while, but most of all listen to your partner, I can’t stress that enough, this will help you avoid any pit falls that can happen.
O. K. How do we meet others in the lifestyle? Well, you could join a swinger’s web site like Swing Life Style at http://www.swinglifestyle.com or our Free web site – http://www.lvswing.xitti.com and take a look at some swinger video. But the best thing to do if you are new is to visit a swing club were you can do as little or as much as you feel comfortable with, if you live in the Las Vegas area I would suggest The Red Rooster for a Sunday night hot tub party, not too many people, just the right amount for new swingers. For Information on the Red Rooster Swing Club visit http://www.vagesredrooster.com

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