What and who are swingers? Swingers can be defined as a person or persons who engage in promiscuous sex. It also is defined as a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners. But what it boils down to is, just “RECREATIONAL SEX” that is to say sex without emotion and just for the fun of it or to put it even more simply lust not love.

Why do people enter the lifestyle? For some swingers, the excitement of living some what a clandestine life were their family members and “vanilla friends” (a term used to describe people not in the lifestyle) have no idea what they are doing. Than again there are swingers that choose not to hide there involvement in the lifestyle, but this is a personal choice, you should be very careful, as knowledge of your involvement in the lifestyle may result in loss of “vanilla friends” and conflicts with family members. We think it is better to keep your swinging lifestyle to your self to keep the circle of friends you now have and the harmony with family members, while building relationships with others in the lifestyle.

Contrary to popular belief, Swingers are not involved in a sexually boring relationship that is not working out, nor are they looking to replace their partner, in fact for swingers it is just the opposite, you will find swingers particularly married couples, are very committed and secure in their relationship. If you are exploring the lifestyle, you should make sure both partners have no doubt, your a relationship is just that Committed and Secure and one that is has a  strong foundation in trust and understanding, with out this you may be headed for disaster. Keep in mind this lifestyle is not for everybody, if you are trying to put the life back into a failing relationship swing won’t do it for you.

Okay, we have a strong foundation of trust and understanding, a very secure and committed relationship, so were do we start? We recommend that couples take some time do some research together, talk to people that have been in the lifestyle for a while, but most of all listen to your partner, I can’t stress that enough, this will help you avoid any pit falls that can happen.

O. K. How do we meet others in the lifestyle? Well, you could join a swinger’s web site like Swing Life Style at http://www.swinglifestyle.com  or our Free web site – http://www.lvswing.xitti.com  and  take a look at some swinger video. But the best thing to do if you are new is to visit a swing club were you can do as little or as much as you feel comfortable with, if you live in the Las Vegas area I would suggest The Red Rooster for a Sunday night hot tub party, not too many people,  just the right amount for new swingers. For Information on the Red Rooster Swing Club visit http://www.vagesredrooster.com

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Let’s Take a look at one of the oldest and what I consider to be the best swing club in Las Vegas, TheRed Rooster.

http://www.vegasredrooster.com

The Red Rooster is the oldest and most well known swingers parties for couples and singles in Las Vegas, Mike and Chris the owners  opened their  800 sq. foot home,  for swing parties six nights a week 28 years ago in 1982 and its still swing-en today and  open 7 nights a week. The house has grown from 800 sq. foot to about Thirteen Thousand sq. feet of swinging fun, with pool table indoor pool and hot tub,  two BYOB bars with bartenders on the weekends. Private rooms as well as a group room and a separate couples area up stairs with two more party rooms. dance floor along with a DJ on Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights.

On some nights the Rooster has theme parties and does enforce  a dress code for that nights party. A good example of this is the Sunday  Hot Tub Party, the dress code is Men and Women, Swim Suits or less. Skinny Dipping works! No you don’t have to walk around naked a towel is fine, but if you want to be naked you are free to do so. As a matter of  fact your free to do or don’t do almost any thing you like,  but the Rooster does have some rules.  Check  out the rules and special events pages on the web site before you go to the party house,  you can find photos of the house also. I will be listing some events here and on http://www.lvswing.com

O. K. you are new to the lifestyle, never been to a club,  want to go but you are a little apprehensive. I try to help you with that. First let me say if you are new to swinging the Red Rooster is the best place for you to start,  Sunday night is the best day to get your feet and other things wet. Why do I say that?  Well first of all, you will find new couples and singles  to the very experienced, about 60 to 100 people are at the Rooster on Sunday, all  are very friendly and easy to talk to.  This Club has a laid back no pressure atmosphere, you can sit and socialize have a few drinks and just talk or you can get right into the action it’s up to you. The age of people that go to the Rooster is 30 to 50 years and above so don’t let your age stop you, we are 57 and 52, have a great time when we go and remember every one is welcome at the Veges Red Rooster. http://www.vegasredrooster.com

Check out our web site http://www.lvswing.com for more info and videos on the lifestyle

See you at the Rooster!


Bob & Sue

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